Step Toward Freedom & Happiness
Susan notes: this short essay from the Daily OM really struck a chord with me. In 2005, I summoned up the courage to step out of a 20-year marriage, which for the most part had been been happy, but clearly no longer was. It was one of the toughest decisions of my life. Since then, I have been through six rollercoaster years that have included moments of deep despair and pure joy, as well as long stretches of both happiness and loneliness. My recommendation to anyone who is considering leaving a long-term relationship is to first try everything possible to make it work. If that fails, and you must go, know that you are stepping into your destiny and you will be okay. Read more about my story and the birth of this website here.
When attempts at working out issues in a relationship aren't working, it may be time to examine moving on.
One of the hardest decisions we ever make in life is leaving a long-term relationship that just isn't working. When attempts at repairing and working out issues aren't working, it may be time to examine moving on.
We are emotional creatures, and when our heartstrings are tied to those of another, separating from that person can feel like an act of courage.
It is not something most of us will take lightly, and many of us will struggle with our desire to stay in a relationship that is unfulfilling simply in order to avoid that pain.